30 November 2021


Before we get started on learning how self-value can be beneficial in our daily lives, let’s do a little recap.

We previously said “Value is the regard someone or something is held to deserve; the importance, worth or usefulness of something and Self-value is a feeling of being happy with yourself, your ability, your character and your choices.” We also got to understand three types of values in this world….

If you haven’t studied that article, simply click the link below to get a full understanding of the topic:


Self-value is your opinion of yourself and your abilities, it’s knowing your importance in the world….

It can be high, low or somewhere in-between. Its normal to occasionally have doubts about yourselves but low self-value can leave you feeling insecure and unmotivated. It can negatively affect virtually every aspect of your life, including your relationships, your job and your health so it’s expedient that we learn to develop a high self-value: but before we get into that lets take a look at the benefits….

Some benefits of developing a high self-value includes:

  • Life becomes simpler and lighter:
  • You won’t drag yourself down or beat yourself up over simple mistakes or over not reaching a perfect and inhuman standard.
  • You remove complexity and minimize stress i.e. you won’t feel the need to compete, to work yourself to exhaustion, to do things you don’t have to (or need to).
  • You’ll have fewer distractions leading to increased focus.
  • You’ll have more time to spend on productive pursuits and relaxation.
  • You’ll be able to remove unhealthy elements from your life.
  • You strengthen your creative and imaginative capacity.
  • You’ll develop clarity in your values.
  • You’ll learn to take care of you so you’ll have better health and be hopeful for the future that’s ahead of you.
  • You’ll have more inner stability:
  • You’ll stop trying so eagerly to get validation and attention from other people i.e. you won’t need approval.
  • Enables you to handle more efficiently the daily affairs of life.
  • Increased inner strength and ability to handle difficult situations.
  • Builds self-confidence and emotional stability.
  • Makes it easier to remove bad habits.
  • It helps you show more patience, tolerance and tact.
  • Able to see the larger picture in a given situation.
  • You’ll sleep better.
  • You gain the ability to be emotionally and mentally unaffected by what people think or say about you.
  • Improved relationships.
  • Less Self-Sabotage:
  • You’ll feel more deserving of good things in life.
  • When you achieve your goals, you’re less likely to succumb to self-doubt.
  • You’ll appreciate yourself a whole lot more.
  • You’ll learn to celebrate your achievements, no matter how little they may be.
  • You stop looking for the imperfections and start looking for the harmony and congruence.
  • Simply appreciate all that life has to offer.
  • Stop trying to make everything perfect.
  • Begin to see more potentials than mistakes.
  • You stop playing the blame game.
  • You choose to move on when things don’t go as planned.
  • You’ll Be More Attractive In Any Relationship: When you feel attractive, you’ll:
  • Have the desire to take better care of yourself thereby being healthier.
  • Meet new people with ease, you’ll also know who to keep around and who to discard.
  • Focus on improving your mental strength and intellect.
  • You’ll Be Happier:
  • Every experience on the path of life becomes much more interesting and entertaining.
  • You give those around you permission to get to know and like the real you as well.
  • You won’t have to focus on the pain of pretending.
  • You will attract more authentic people into your life and create a network of supportive, uplifting and even fun folks you can genuinely call friends.
  • You free up space for your relationships to grow and become even healthier than they already are.
  • You’ll experience less stress in your life and be more relaxed in every area of your life.
  • Your productivity in your work, your play and your life in general will skyrocket.
  • You learn to live each day inspired and doing what brings you joy.
  • You’ll realize that the world needs your light.
  • You Accept New Challenges and Boldly Articulate Your View:
  • You’ll become more creative in your endeavors.
  • You build personal strength.
  • Humility.
  • You increase your achievements.
  • It brings uplifting feelings of accomplishment and exhilaration.
  • You build stronger character.
  • You feel endowed; you feel more like you have influence and can make impact.
  • You always feel motivated.
  • You gain self-trust.
  • Your self-confidence grows with each challenge you overcome.
  • You Know It’s Ok To Not Know Everything.
  • You Develop Good Communication Skills:
  • Builds trust.
  • Creates a more positive environment.
  • Develop better relationships.
  • Increased productivity and engagements.
  • Resolve problems easily.
  • Handle conflict maturely.
  • Provides clarity and direction for all relationships.
  • Gives room for open mindedness.
  • Builds mutual respect.
  • You Achieve Goals Easily:
  • You feel more motivated to achieve your goals.
  • You’ll have clearer focus on what’s important.
  • Decision making becomes easy.
  • You control your future.
  • You get a Sense of personal satisfaction.
  • You get a sense of purpose in life.

Every single one of us was bought with a price;

“1 Corinthians 6:20- You were bought with a price [purchased with a preciousness and paid for, made his own]. So then, honor God and bring glory to him in your body. [AMP]”

And so therefore we don’t need to prove to anyone how valuable we are because we’re loved by Him who created the heavens and the earth….

Comparism with others is what the world teaches us to do but the bible say in;

“Ecclesiastes 4:4- Then I saw that all painful effort in labor and all skill in work comes from man’s rivalry with his neighbor. This is also vanity, a vain striving after the wind and a feeding on it. [AMP]”

Never compare yourself with anybody because it’ll profit you nothing, focus on him, allow him control/be in charge of your life and you’ll evidently enjoy every single benefits listed in this article.

More Scriptures on Self-Value;

“Then God said, “Let Us (Father, Son, Holy Spirit) make man in Our image, according to Our likeness [not physical, but a spiritual personality and moral likeness]; and let them have complete authority over the fish of the sea, the birds of the air, the cattle, and over the entire earth, and over everything that creeps and crawls on the earth.” – Genesis 1:26 [AMP]

“4-Just as [in His love] He chose us in Christ [actually selected us for Himself as His own] before the foundation of the world, so that we would be holy [that is, consecrated, set apart for Him, purpose-driven] and blameless in His sight. In love.

5-He predestined and lovingly planned for us to be adopted to Himself as [His own] children through Jesus Christ, in accordance with the kind intention and good pleasure of His will.

6-To the praise of His glorious grace and favor, which He so freely bestowed on us in the Beloved [His Son, Jesus Christ].” – Ephesians 1:4-6 [AMP]

“But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a consecrated nation, a [special] people for God’s own possession, so that you may proclaim the excellencies [the wonderful deeds and virtues and perfections] of Him who called you out of darkness into His marvelous light.” – 1 Peter 2:9 [AMP]

“15-I do not call you servants any longer, for the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you [My] friends, because I have revealed to you everything that I have heard from My Father.

16-You have not chosen Me, but I have chosen you and I have appointed and placed and purposefully planted you, so that you would go and bear fruit and keep on bearing, and that your fruit will remain and be lasting, so that whatever you ask of the Father in My name [as My representative] He may give to you.” – John 15:15-16 [AMP]

“32-He who did not spare [even] His own Son, but gave Him up for us all, how will He not also, along with Him, graciously give us all things?

33-Who will bring any charge against God’s elect (His chosen ones)? It is God who justifies us [declaring us blameless and putting us in a right relationship with Himself].

34-Who is the one who condemns us? Christ Jesus is the One who died [to pay our penalty], and more than that, who was raised [from the dead], and who is at the right hand of God interceding [with the Father] for us.

35-Who shall ever separate us from the love of Christ? Will tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or danger, or sword?” – Roman 8:32-35

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